Naggers
I saw how I kinda merged the two topics together and felt that it didn't quite mix. So now, I introduce to you a whole new post on naggers and only on naggers. This definition was from www.dictionary.com :
Nag:
Synonyms:
1. pester, harass, hector, irritate, vex.
Notice how it says harass as a synonym. My mom nags at me about how I eat. Well.. stop telling me how I eat. Each and every person has their own unique way of doing things. To nag means that you're just looking for a fight. Not everyone has patience to listen to you complain about what they're doing what you are considering as "wrong". In other words, you're annoying. You annoy other people for the fun of it. Considering all that, you have no better life than to "nag".
How about you try to talk? Instead of nagging, just talk. Talk straight out and don't take the long cuts. Unless you're joking by nagging... please notice the difference? If you're the kind of person that doesn't know the kind of humor your friend has.. well... know it and tell your friend about it. Then there would be no misunderstanding. Nagging causes problems, a lot of problems.
My mom nagged about me and how I eat my breakfast. How I eat fast usually and how I always go to school later. Then, (I forgot to add this part in) I said about how I woke up late and stuff. She says, "That's because you sleep late. Who told you to sleep late..?" and blah blah blah. Then of course, I talked back and made it a lot harder for the two of us to communicate so I left the house angrily and went to school. Ah... the loveliness of home.
Please try to consider others' feelings when you start complaining or pointing out the wrongs in one's doings. Think, "Will he/she take it as a joke or seriously? Will he/she talk back? Will he/she be angry? Will he/she change?" Answer these kinds of questions before you nag. Of course you're thinking, By the time I finish thinking, I probably forgot what to nag about. Well, that is your problem. Maybe you shouldn't nag at all. Change your habit?
Nag:
–verb (used with object)
| 1. | to annoy by persistent faultfinding, complaints, or demands. |
| 2. | to keep in a state of troubled awareness or anxiety, as a recurrent pain or problem: She had certain misgivings that nagged her. |
–verb (used without object)
| 3. | to find fault or complain in an irritating, wearisome, or relentless manner (often fol. by at): If they start nagging at each other, I'm going home. |
| 4. | to cause pain, discomfort, distress, depression, etc. (often fol. by at): This headache has been nagging at me all day. |
Synonyms:
1. pester, harass, hector, irritate, vex.
Notice how it says harass as a synonym. My mom nags at me about how I eat. Well.. stop telling me how I eat. Each and every person has their own unique way of doing things. To nag means that you're just looking for a fight. Not everyone has patience to listen to you complain about what they're doing what you are considering as "wrong". In other words, you're annoying. You annoy other people for the fun of it. Considering all that, you have no better life than to "nag".
How about you try to talk? Instead of nagging, just talk. Talk straight out and don't take the long cuts. Unless you're joking by nagging... please notice the difference? If you're the kind of person that doesn't know the kind of humor your friend has.. well... know it and tell your friend about it. Then there would be no misunderstanding. Nagging causes problems, a lot of problems.
My mom nagged about me and how I eat my breakfast. How I eat fast usually and how I always go to school later. Then, (I forgot to add this part in) I said about how I woke up late and stuff. She says, "That's because you sleep late. Who told you to sleep late..?" and blah blah blah. Then of course, I talked back and made it a lot harder for the two of us to communicate so I left the house angrily and went to school. Ah... the loveliness of home.
Please try to consider others' feelings when you start complaining or pointing out the wrongs in one's doings. Think, "Will he/she take it as a joke or seriously? Will he/she talk back? Will he/she be angry? Will he/she change?" Answer these kinds of questions before you nag. Of course you're thinking, By the time I finish thinking, I probably forgot what to nag about. Well, that is your problem. Maybe you shouldn't nag at all. Change your habit?
--Yuki Ai
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posted by Yuki Ai @ 5:19 PM,
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